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Beverly M
We travel to Hawaii every year and have never felt that we weren’t welcome. We spend a lot of time seeing as much of the islands as we can and rarely hang out at the pool or beach where we are staying. We have visited Hawaii, Maui, Kauai, Oahu, and Lanai numerous times but have only visited Molokai once. Our next trip is back to Molokai and Hawaii. Away from the resorts, each island has its own beauty and character distinct from the other islands, which is what we love about Hawaii. We usually stay away from larger chain restaurants and stores and search out small businesses owned by locals. We find that is the best way to see and appreciate Hawaii. We love the locals and pray they will continue to accept us!
My husband and I have been coming to Hawaii since 1973. We have great respect for the people, the land, the culture, etc. Since retirement we are fortunate to come to Hawaii every year and stay for several months. We truly feel that Hawaii is our second home. It saddens us to see tourists who do not respect the “rules” of Hawaiian culture, but I know that it happens. I’m afraid I do not have answers. I only hope that we can continue to spend time in our beloved Hawaii, and will not be denied entry. Thank you. Sending much Aloha from Schenectady, NY
I enjoyed both videos. Thanks for sharing them. My wish for everyone who visits Hawaii is to slow down, walk, listen, hear and laugh. Try to be a part of what Hawaii really is. Slower life, happier times. Help keep the beaches and ocean clean. Clean a beach with locals, support Clean Water legislation. Go to all of the local stores and farmers markets. Find new favorite foods, new favorite views. Sit on the beach with a good book. Buy a pair of slippahs at the market and take a slow stroll. Visit the botanical gardens and all of the beautiful parks. Why do you want to come to Hawaii really ? You want it to remain Hawaii, eh ? Lets all rejoice that there is still a Hawaii to cherish. Its up to us to make good decisions while visiting these tiny islands. Our dreams of Hawaii are large, we need to help keep those dreams alive.
I was born and raised on Kauai and now live in Nashville, Tennessee. I’ve lived here since 1992 so in actuality I’ve lived in the mainland longer than I lived on Kauai (graduated from Kapaa High School in 1977, went to college on the mainland and never returned to live but many times to see family). I will always consider myself as ‘local’ no matter how long I’ve lived elsewhere. Hawaii is in my heart, my being and I cherish the culture and the ways of Hawaii.
I am a travel agent and so I’ve been greatly impacted by this. My business is operating in the red right now and I’m as anxious as everyone else to get the US economy up and going. That being said, the health and well being of the American citizens are the number one priority in all this mess. Some states are opening up (Phase I) but Hawaii is not one of them. It’s way too early to start bringing in people from the mainland. The health care system can not handle the number of cases if there was to be a surge of positive cases. Hawaii is unique in that it can control people from coming and going from the outside. We on the mainland are not as fortunate as people can drive over state borders and are much more difficult to control.
The Hawaiian culture is so precious and I would hate to see the impact of such a pandemic on the health and well being of the locals. Hawaii is already suffering economically and if they were to recover, there needs to be strict mandates for now. Stressing the phrase, “for now”. Tourists are more than welcome to Hawaii but in order to preserve the islands, please be patient until things improve so they can open things up again. Respect goes both ways. We’re all in this together.
My husband and I have been to Hawaii 12 times in the last 25 years. We were supposed to be there now, but we had to cancel our trip due to this. We always stay about 30 days on 2 to 3 islands since we have to travel so far (we live in Florida).
We always have felt welcomed. We do honor their culture & traditions & in doing so, we feel like we have the best vacation. We LOVE the music, the ocean, the restaurants, & most of all…the people of Hawaii.
We have already booked our trip for next year.
My sister lived in Hawaii for thirty years. My parents are buried in Hilo. My wife and I owned a house in Kapoho Vacationland until it was covered by lava during the eruption. Kapoho was a beautiful and special place. We now have a place in Milolii. There has always been the 10% that had attitude towards mainlanders. But was far outweighed by the generous and accepting and loving nature of most. My wife and I feel that uncontrolled animosity started with TMT. And now with the vi rus and negative comments on different sites and the police state that’s is contemplating ankle bracelets for visitors is almost too much.
I have a foot in each door. I live in California and Maui. I love both and try to respect the cultures of California and Maui. Coming to Maui is my joy, peace, and love for my life.
I love Kauai. I got married at Coco Palms in 1989 and we come to the island every year for our anniversary. I feel the locals have become more unfriendly and hostile. We kayaked in Hanalei and came on shore to a have a local woman screeching at us and chasing us and threatening us. We left because we didn’t want our kids injured. This whole incident was very difficult to explain to our kids. I don’t feel comfortable on any beach where the locals congregate. All they do is glare at you and are not friendly!!! I have always respected the island of Kauai and leave nothing but foot steps behind. I respected their culture also. It would be nice if they respected me back. Every year Kauai has become less and less friendly. God bless Kauai.
Aloha,
Hawaii is one of my favorite places, I have been fortunate to visit 3 of the 4 islands and I love them all! I love everything about Hawaii, the beautiful land, the ocean and especially the culture: the appreciation they have for family and the respect for their land and ocean! I totally understand the people of Hawaii’s views of tourism-if all people visiting would come to hawaii with appreciation respect and understand that this is not their playground and this is peoples home, I don’t feel their would be as much tension between visitors and locals. Learn about the Hawaiian culture before you come and come with an “Aloha spirit” before you do step foot in Hawaii! I want Hawaii to be around with its beauty and Aloha for all of our future to enjoy and I know the locals want the same! They’re culture and heritage is very important and it should be preserved for generations to come! People need to think of how they would feel every day of the year to have millions of new people in their city, state, neighborhood or area roaming around, not respecting their life and what they have built-destroying, trashing or ruining their lands and then leaving it for you to deal with. People visiting need to treat Hawaii like you are entering into someone’s house-take your shoes off, use your manners, clean up after yourself and hopefully leave it better than when you came! The lands of Hawaii are an extension of the locals homes! Much Mahalo Beat of Hawaii and locals for allowing us to enjoy your beautiful paradise! I hope to see you soon!
Mahalo!
We agree, wherever you travel and at home respect other people, their culture and the natural environment. We feel it is a priveledge to have the opportunity to see and experience different sights and cultures. Experience it with respect and thoughtfulness. Communication is the key. We love communicating with the locals where ever we travel to. It’s always so interesting and informative such a joy. Who better to ask? Be polite to one another and we all enjoy the experience 🙂
I have been to Hawaii several times and intend to return again. Each time depending on the area or town I have met incredibly nice locals and other times extremely rude. My first time visiting during big surf season near pipeline we had all our boards stolen. That was the first day I ever stepped foot on the island. Wasn’t a pleasant welcome. I think it is the same as many other places you can visit. Some people are nice and will go out of their way to make you feel welcome. Others just find you annoying and want you to leave their area alone.
I always try to be respectful and appreciate the culture of where I am traveling too. I love the history and culture of Hawaii and I will return again and again. I hope more travelers can be respectful as I am and I hope that more locals can learn to teach/show tourists the culture and the love for the land, sea, and all that call Hawaii home.
Our family has gone to Hawaii over 15 times over the last 20 years and we do see a hostility. with the younger Hawaiians (17-30) toward non locals. We are respectful visitors that Love Hawaii but I agree it has gotten worse where we see lots of areas where tourists are not welcomed. The older generation we feel welcome us and are super friendly. We sure hope this attitude changes because Hawaii is our Families favorite vacation destination and we own a timeshare there also. We also feel good contributing our money to the Hawaiian economy 🤙🏽
To be honest, I have been to Hawaii and the Islands in general over 25 times in my life. Although I have never had a desire to live there, I find it a wonderful place to visit as I have numerous Hawaiian friends living there. I am welcomed there so much that I am considered part of their Hawaiian family as a Hanai and not a Haole. That family extends to more Hawaiian family members living in close proximity to me in the Sacramento area.
I understand the different feelings people feel about the major changes that have taken place in Hawaii and how it is upsetting their financial and emotional lives. Let’s sit back and try to understand and absorb other people’s feelings.
If in retrospect the State of California had done what Hawaii has done in curbing visitors for the health sake of its citizens, I hope Hawaii would understand the circumstances as well. I believe they would as they are loving people.
Aloha friends,
My husband and I have been regular visitors to Maui for many years. When we visit we usually stay several weeks. We have made many friends from our visits to local shops and restaurants. We certainly appreciate the Hawaiian culture and are always eager to learn more about it. Our island friends have been more than gracious in helping us learn and understand their culture. We have never experienced local negativity. Several years ago, when I was learning to paddle board, three locals saw how I was struggling, they immediately approached me with tips and kindness. this is the Aloha Spirit of the islands. We enjoy watching the beautiful sunsets from Kamaole 1 and are usually joined by friends playing Ukulele and singing. This is the Aloha Spirit of Hawaii that I will always treasure.
Mahalo my Friends!
I am saddened by the way we were treated by a few locals on our last trip to Kauai in March. For six months we’d planned a family trip to celebrate my parents 80th birthdays and 60th wedding anniversary. 35 years prior, my parents moved to Kauai where my father worked at Wilcox Hospital. After moving back to the states we’ve always traveled back to Kauai at least once a year, this being our favorite island, loving the culture and people, it just always felt like home. My husband and I even married there.
Once we arrived on March 12th we were ready to have the trip of a lifetime, with our entire family, until the pan demic got worse a couple of weeks later. We were prepared to stay a month or more until tensions on the island with visitors became extremely uncomfortable. I have never before experienced such hatred and negativity before anywhere. We were taunted by some local young men at Shipwreck beach yelling “go home halie” while walking around us in a circle. Or walking past us with a surf board on the north shore, or protesters at the roundabout in Poipu where we were staying. We even got glared at for sitting on our lanai at our own condo when told to stay in place by the governor. We couldn’t leave the island fast enough and get home. I have to say I am disappointed by the actions of a few that have tarnished our love of a culture and island that we’ve loved and shared for so many years. I am sadly no longer dreaming of the day we would retire and move to our beloved Kauai.
Aloha old friend…may we someday find our happy place again with you.
I have been a visitor to Hawaii for over 20 years and even lived on Maui for 1 year. I have always loved and respected the Hawaiian culture and I have always been well received by any Hawaiian people or businesses I have dealt with. From time to time I have witnessed our visitors who have a total disrespect for the place they are visiting.
I feel the problem is more with the visitors than with the locals.
Aloha! As a person who has visited Hawai’i three times, I can honestly say it is like no other place I have been. It is magical. I love it there, and my partner and I cannot wait to visit again once it is OK to do so (hopefully by late July / early August). We understand the need for Hawai’i to get well on its own prior to opening back up to tourism. My partner previously lived on Oahu for a few years growing up, so he understands both sides of this topic. We have not experienced any issues of feeling unwelcome during our previous trips. We are respectful to everyone we encounter and to each place we visit. We are thankful to be able to visit what we call “Paradise”. We have a goal of moving to Oahu in the late summer, and once there, we’d love to be able to give back to the community through volunteer work. Thank you for all the information and articles, BOH.
We are planning our 7th trip to Kauai, the most peaceful haven on Earth, in my opinion. We have always been treated kindly and with courtesy. Of course, we have always done the same. We respect the land, ocean, and the culture.
A few times the cashier at Walmart has been a little unfriendly, not talking, just getting her job done.
Billy, at Dukes has always greeted us, glad we chose to visit again.
We would buy a condo at Kiahuna Plantation, if it weren’t for the HOA fees being so high. Gotta win the lottery, and then we’d be a resident ASAP.
Overall Kauai is respectful, kind, and courteous. (
(Honolulu is the opposite!)
I’m an annual retired military visitor from eastern Long Island (NY) and,obviously, return because I love Hawaii. I have visited almost all the islands and in addition to their natural beauty I find the “locals” a genuinely kind, helpful and gregarious . I truly appreciate the reality of an “Aloha” spirit the is so accepting of the visitor. Anecdotally, a left-behind back pack on a Honolulu bus was returned without loss of a single item. The local folks are, without a doubt in my mind, fine hosts which invites a mutual respect. Mahalo
When the road to Haena and Ke’e Beach was opened, we were very impressed with the great job that Kauai did fixing the road and putting in the lot. The parking lot is fantastic, and we do not mind at all having to get a permit – you just have to plan ahead. We were staying at Kauai Lagoons near the airport and drove up to see the new road and spend a little time at Ke’e and were so pleased to be able to do so. Limiting access to the beach is fine with us. Thank you Kauai, for taking such good care of your beautiful island. We always try not to disturb anything when we visit. We’ve been visiting regularly since the ’90s and hope we’ll be able to come back in the fall.
Our family has been going to Kauai and Maui for years. We have camped and stayed in Condos while visiting. Our experiences have been wonderful and we were surprised to read that some visitors didn’t feel the same way!
Aloha!
Even though we live in California, it took us many years to first visit Hawaii. Being Greek, we usually headed ‘home’ for vacation. But since we visited 4yrs ago, we find ourselves drawn to the Hawaiian Ohana spirit & continue to visit. We have a Sept trip planned for Kauai & are hoping to learn more about Hawaiian history & culture. We know how it feels tourists go to Greece & trash its islands so we can empathize with local frustrations. We appreciate the dialogue. Mahalo & Happy Lei Day!
I think this is overplayed. Visitors who are courteous and respectful are normally treated well in Hawaii. You have 4 classes of residents who to some extent or another are local. First, Military on secondment. These people are often from the Mainland and lve Service lives. They reside in Hawaii but are Service Personnel first and foremost. This group is unlikely to resent you for not being local. Malahinis, these are newcomers who are not from Hawaii but have moved here and often feel they should lay down the law on Hawaii’s future. often these folks are the most vociferous in complaining about visitors, This could be because they want to distance themselves from being visitors. Then you have Kama’aina who are of the land which means born in Hawaii, This can be a broad group with Japanese, Chinese, Filipino, Macronesian, Korean, Portuguese, Mainland and other subgroups. You can get hostility in some of these groups particularly amongst the young and those involved in Drugs and illegal activity. This animosity is nothing special to Hawaii it is present in Urban populations worldwide. This is more of a Problem on Oahu. Lastly you have Hawaiians who can trace some or all of their roots back many generations of Hawaiians (let us not forget Hawaiians came from Tahiti and other Polynesian islands and according to legend replaced the indigeous Menehune). Some Hawaiians feel that they have had a raw deal from the US take over and ousting of the Monarchy and the subsequent attempts to destroy the language and the culture, This is further magnified by the Hawaiians’ relationship with the land so Lockeian attempts to claim land ownership through improvement do not sit well and many of the earlier property development restrictions particularly trying to limit riperian rights have now been overturned by the supreme court. Now a visitor is unlikely to be informed enough to enter into a historic or political conversation but it is as well to know that for many this is a sore point. So you can see some do not care, some feel aggrieved at their financial situation having to do multiple jobs, some are sucked into drugs and alcohol and look for someone else to blame, some feel that the developers who wish to turn the Islands into another California are destroying what Hawaii is. As I said my experience since 1994 is that a courteous respectful person who engages with Hawaii and the local population is unlikely to encounter hostility but those who make insensitive comments like we are Americans, we own this place, have too much to drink and behave badly and generally merit little respect may well be dismissed as annoying. A good test is the flag. The King decided it should combine the flags of Great Britain and the United States as he wished to be on good terms with both countries. This upsets some visitors. If you feel the Union Jack should not be there, then you may well feel some locals do not like you. Unfortunately most British people do not make the connection to the US flag as only the stripes are used and any that feel Hawaii should have remained closer to the UK probably should have stayed home, as that rain left the station a long time ago and we are not talking HART. We cannot change history, much of which was very regrettable but if we respect each other and are courteous, you should not have a problem in Hawaii (though late night bars in Waikiki should be treated very very carefully).
My husband and I visited both Oahu and Kauai in December 2013. We loved both places! On Oahu, we didn’t rent a car but on Kauai we did. A local was tailgating us in Kauai through a windy pass. We were not driving slow for the local to pass us but he was going twice the speed he was supposed to go on curves. He finally went around us and we honked him. He got out of a car and said to my husband that honking is like saying the f word to people in Hawaii. My husband responded by saying that tailgating says the same thing to us. We feel that the hospitality of Hawaii has mostly been great but this person really put a bitter taste in our mouths. We will definitely be back to Kauai but locals need to have some courtesy to people that are not used to driving on the roads over there. Remember, we mainlanders help pay your salaries.
Both of my trips to Hawaii have been amazing and full of kindness from locals. We also showed respect and gratitude to the locals, the land, the culture, and the opportunity to experience the wonder and beauty of Hawaii.
I have visited Hawaii a little over a dozen times (for military missions & vacations). I have always received positive, friendly attitudes from the locals. I would not hesitate to return
anytime in the near future and feel welcomed. MAHALO!
My family has been coming to Hawaii every year since 2011 sometimes twice a year for 2 to 3 week stays. We have spent that time in Kauai or The Big Island. Being from Canada it is a wonderful reprieve from the long winter months and a time to recharge. We have always only experienced the upmost hospitality from the Hawaiian people and will continue to come and visit your wonderful islands in the years to come. We have a trip booked in August but due to this we may not be able to come. The Islands are your home and if you feel we need to wait to visit that is within your right to determine. We as visitors to your beautiful islands should respect that. Mahalo
I visit Hawaii at least once a year and have for several years. I’ve seen it both ways. Where residents are disrespectful to tourists and tourists are disrespectful to residents. I understand why residents dislike the large amount of tourism that happens on the islands. When I go, I often try and dress like the residents. No Tommy Bahama shirts or dresses. I want to blend in. Tis the advice of my sister-in-law who was a resident for years. I’m respectful to the business owners. They don’t owe me anything. I wish the state would return some of the tourism dollars directly to the residents. They deserve it. My advice to anyone visiting Hawaii. This is not your home. Be kind and respectful to place you visit. To the residents, we visitors, were not all jerks. Patience and communication between the two groups is key for both.
Among our many trips to the Hawaiian Islands, we were on Kauai during Hurricane Iniki and sheltered at the community college. We fled quickly to the sound of tsunami sirens, only grabbing suitcases and blankets. The next day, we attempted to retrieve the rest of our belongings. The road to our rented beachfront Poipu condo was destroyed and so were all the homes and buildings. All power lines had fallen. Destruction was everywhere. We parked and walked a mile or two to the condo. The beach was gone and dead fish littered chunks of blacktop that had once been road. The front of the whole complex was sheared off from the tsunami. On the way back, carrying bags of food and other items we retrieved, a van pulled over and the local woman driver invited us to let her drive us back to our car. We gratefully got in and I said to her, “We will be going home to our house and life. But Kauai is destroyed. Why are you helping us?” She answered, “Why honey, that is the aloha way.” I burst into tears. I love Hawaii and it’s customs and people.
Both of my trips to Hawaii have been amazing and full of kindness from locals. We also displayed respect and kindness to the locals, the land, and for the opportunity to experience the wonder that is Hawaii. Mahalo to all of the local Hawaiians.
As someone who owns a vacation rental on Kauai, I can say from personal experience that overwhelming majority of the islanders has been positive. As with any community there has been exceptions. However, the 2nd video highlighting a respect for their property, culture and island cannot be overstated. My personal experience has been one of mutual respect and kindness. I suggest going to the Kauai Museum and spend some time learning about the history and proud heritage the islanders have. This I think will help to understand there sentiment how visitors are asked and should behave. The travel ban obviously has hurt us and the people who work for us. Thanks for the opportunity to share.
I just had my trip to Maui canceled by my airline, refunded no problem. However, my condo accommodation is another story. I stand to lose my investment for the week there. Loss of accommodation dollars could be the reason that many people are scrambling to quickly rebook. I am not. I can see that some people may not feel they have any choice but to return quickly before they lose all of their money in such a situation.
My true heart is that I do not want to return to Hawaii until the time is right both for the people who live there and also for me as a traveler. I have been to the islands four times and had planned a return trip because I love the beauty and the culture and the slow pace. However, due to the extreme cost and difficulty of getting there and being there, I don’t want to return until everything is open and I can freely visit where I would like to and not be a burden to the resources. I do not want to be where I am not wanted or needed on a vacation. This is my feeling not only about visiting Hawaii again, but anywhere else in the world right now.
Aloha,
We have been coming to one of the islands every year since 2001. Absolutley our favorite place to go in the world..
We always feel welcome and safe.
I do believe how you treat people is reflected in how they treat you back..
Tomorrow was supposed to be my first time on the islands. I was so looking forward to seeing everything I can swimming in the ocean, visiting local restaurants and event places. But now of course its off. WE who are visitors totally get that. I am very respectful of tradition and everything that Hawaii stands for.
We are hoping to reschedule in September since prices have gone thru the roof. We are still unsure as to how to either rebook or get credits for our flights.
Just remember many of us save a long time to be able to come and enjoy everything Hawaii has to offer so please dont look at us or treat us as though we are all bad when coming to visit hawaii. Stay safe everyone hope to see meet and party with all of you in September! Much love from Oregon!
I certainly had great experience while being there, Ben to the islands 6 times, all of the main island except the big island and hopefully there for out 50 wedding anniversary next year.
We were suppose to travel to Maui and Oahu a few weeks ago. We had been planning since August of last year, and had saved and budgeted quite a lot of $$$ for the trip. We have however received a full refund on all our expenses which is a blessing. I don’t know if we will end up rebooking the Hawaiian holiday anytime soon. I have read articles of tourists being targeted and their rental cars being vandalized with tire’s being slashed. Comments saying do not come here, cancel your trips to people who are just genuinely asking travel related questions. Travel to Hawaii is not cheap or easy for a lot of people on the East coast. We could just jump over to the Caribbean and be welcomed with open arms. Hopefully tourism rebounds and we are welcomed and maybe one day In the future we will return.
Aloha everyone.
I so miss my trips to the Islands…after all, it is Paradise!
I’m sure those who live there can find the throngs of tourists trying at times, but, I have to say, that on all my visits the people I met were always kind and welcoming.(Full of ‘Aloha’)
This crisis is making us all more than a bit fearful and naturally the Islanders want to keep the Islands vi rus-free, if possible. Hence the restrictions…a nuisance for locals and visitors alike. However, I have no doubts that we will be welcomed again. (Sooner rather than later, I hope!) Meanwhile, keep safe and well and protect Paradise for us all.
Mahalo,
Michael
We have visited Kauai every year for the past 5 years(except 2020) and stay for a month in a condo. I can say because of the beautiful spirit of the people we love this island & consider to be a part of it! I have no problem with the locals not wanting tourists during this! I agree totally. I also believe (hope) that when things start opening, the island and her people will welcome us back happily. Does that mean we need to flock to Kauai now?? NO!! It is too soon to know about a recurrence & the hospital can’t handle a large volume-nor should they be expected to. We plan to return but it will be awhile
We travel to Hawaii every year and have never felt that we weren’t welcome. We spend a lot of time seeing as much of the islands as we can and rarely hang out at the pool or beach where we are staying. We have visited Hawaii, Maui, Kauai, Oahu, and Lanai numerous times but have only visited Molokai once. Our next trip is back to Molokai and Hawaii. Away from the resorts, each island has its own beauty and character distinct from the other islands, which is what we love about Hawaii. We usually stay away from larger chain restaurants and stores and search out small businesses owned by locals. We find that is the best way to see and appreciate Hawaii. We love the locals and pray they will continue to accept us!
If you can’t respect the land or the people then you’re missing the point of Hawaii and you don’t need to go there.
My husband and I have been coming to Hawaii since 1973. We have great respect for the people, the land, the culture, etc. Since retirement we are fortunate to come to Hawaii every year and stay for several months. We truly feel that Hawaii is our second home. It saddens us to see tourists who do not respect the “rules” of Hawaiian culture, but I know that it happens. I’m afraid I do not have answers. I only hope that we can continue to spend time in our beloved Hawaii, and will not be denied entry. Thank you. Sending much Aloha from Schenectady, NY
Hi Linda.
Thank you.
Aloha.
I enjoyed both videos. Thanks for sharing them. My wish for everyone who visits Hawaii is to slow down, walk, listen, hear and laugh. Try to be a part of what Hawaii really is. Slower life, happier times. Help keep the beaches and ocean clean. Clean a beach with locals, support Clean Water legislation. Go to all of the local stores and farmers markets. Find new favorite foods, new favorite views. Sit on the beach with a good book. Buy a pair of slippahs at the market and take a slow stroll. Visit the botanical gardens and all of the beautiful parks. Why do you want to come to Hawaii really ? You want it to remain Hawaii, eh ? Lets all rejoice that there is still a Hawaii to cherish. Its up to us to make good decisions while visiting these tiny islands. Our dreams of Hawaii are large, we need to help keep those dreams alive.
Hi Marsha.
Thanks.
Aloha.
I was born and raised on Kauai and now live in Nashville, Tennessee. I’ve lived here since 1992 so in actuality I’ve lived in the mainland longer than I lived on Kauai (graduated from Kapaa High School in 1977, went to college on the mainland and never returned to live but many times to see family). I will always consider myself as ‘local’ no matter how long I’ve lived elsewhere. Hawaii is in my heart, my being and I cherish the culture and the ways of Hawaii.
I am a travel agent and so I’ve been greatly impacted by this. My business is operating in the red right now and I’m as anxious as everyone else to get the US economy up and going. That being said, the health and well being of the American citizens are the number one priority in all this mess. Some states are opening up (Phase I) but Hawaii is not one of them. It’s way too early to start bringing in people from the mainland. The health care system can not handle the number of cases if there was to be a surge of positive cases. Hawaii is unique in that it can control people from coming and going from the outside. We on the mainland are not as fortunate as people can drive over state borders and are much more difficult to control.
The Hawaiian culture is so precious and I would hate to see the impact of such a pandemic on the health and well being of the locals. Hawaii is already suffering economically and if they were to recover, there needs to be strict mandates for now. Stressing the phrase, “for now”. Tourists are more than welcome to Hawaii but in order to preserve the islands, please be patient until things improve so they can open things up again. Respect goes both ways. We’re all in this together.
My husband and I have been to Hawaii 12 times in the last 25 years. We were supposed to be there now, but we had to cancel our trip due to this. We always stay about 30 days on 2 to 3 islands since we have to travel so far (we live in Florida).
We always have felt welcomed. We do honor their culture & traditions & in doing so, we feel like we have the best vacation. We LOVE the music, the ocean, the restaurants, & most of all…the people of Hawaii.
We have already booked our trip for next year.
A Hui Hou,
Judy
Hi Judy.
Thanks.
Aloha.
My sister lived in Hawaii for thirty years. My parents are buried in Hilo. My wife and I owned a house in Kapoho Vacationland until it was covered by lava during the eruption. Kapoho was a beautiful and special place. We now have a place in Milolii. There has always been the 10% that had attitude towards mainlanders. But was far outweighed by the generous and accepting and loving nature of most. My wife and I feel that uncontrolled animosity started with TMT. And now with the vi rus and negative comments on different sites and the police state that’s is contemplating ankle bracelets for visitors is almost too much.
I have a foot in each door. I live in California and Maui. I love both and try to respect the cultures of California and Maui. Coming to Maui is my joy, peace, and love for my life.
I love Kauai. I got married at Coco Palms in 1989 and we come to the island every year for our anniversary. I feel the locals have become more unfriendly and hostile. We kayaked in Hanalei and came on shore to a have a local woman screeching at us and chasing us and threatening us. We left because we didn’t want our kids injured. This whole incident was very difficult to explain to our kids. I don’t feel comfortable on any beach where the locals congregate. All they do is glare at you and are not friendly!!! I have always respected the island of Kauai and leave nothing but foot steps behind. I respected their culture also. It would be nice if they respected me back. Every year Kauai has become less and less friendly. God bless Kauai.
Aloha,
Hawaii is one of my favorite places, I have been fortunate to visit 3 of the 4 islands and I love them all! I love everything about Hawaii, the beautiful land, the ocean and especially the culture: the appreciation they have for family and the respect for their land and ocean! I totally understand the people of Hawaii’s views of tourism-if all people visiting would come to hawaii with appreciation respect and understand that this is not their playground and this is peoples home, I don’t feel their would be as much tension between visitors and locals. Learn about the Hawaiian culture before you come and come with an “Aloha spirit” before you do step foot in Hawaii! I want Hawaii to be around with its beauty and Aloha for all of our future to enjoy and I know the locals want the same! They’re culture and heritage is very important and it should be preserved for generations to come! People need to think of how they would feel every day of the year to have millions of new people in their city, state, neighborhood or area roaming around, not respecting their life and what they have built-destroying, trashing or ruining their lands and then leaving it for you to deal with. People visiting need to treat Hawaii like you are entering into someone’s house-take your shoes off, use your manners, clean up after yourself and hopefully leave it better than when you came! The lands of Hawaii are an extension of the locals homes! Much Mahalo Beat of Hawaii and locals for allowing us to enjoy your beautiful paradise! I hope to see you soon!
Mahalo!
Hi Shelli.
Thank you.
Aloha.
We agree, wherever you travel and at home respect other people, their culture and the natural environment. We feel it is a priveledge to have the opportunity to see and experience different sights and cultures. Experience it with respect and thoughtfulness. Communication is the key. We love communicating with the locals where ever we travel to. It’s always so interesting and informative such a joy. Who better to ask? Be polite to one another and we all enjoy the experience 🙂
I have been to Hawaii several times and intend to return again. Each time depending on the area or town I have met incredibly nice locals and other times extremely rude. My first time visiting during big surf season near pipeline we had all our boards stolen. That was the first day I ever stepped foot on the island. Wasn’t a pleasant welcome. I think it is the same as many other places you can visit. Some people are nice and will go out of their way to make you feel welcome. Others just find you annoying and want you to leave their area alone.
I always try to be respectful and appreciate the culture of where I am traveling too. I love the history and culture of Hawaii and I will return again and again. I hope more travelers can be respectful as I am and I hope that more locals can learn to teach/show tourists the culture and the love for the land, sea, and all that call Hawaii home.
Aloha
Hi Lisa.
Thanks.
Aloha.
Our family has gone to Hawaii over 15 times over the last 20 years and we do see a hostility. with the younger Hawaiians (17-30) toward non locals. We are respectful visitors that Love Hawaii but I agree it has gotten worse where we see lots of areas where tourists are not welcomed. The older generation we feel welcome us and are super friendly. We sure hope this attitude changes because Hawaii is our Families favorite vacation destination and we own a timeshare there also. We also feel good contributing our money to the Hawaiian economy 🤙🏽
To be honest, I have been to Hawaii and the Islands in general over 25 times in my life. Although I have never had a desire to live there, I find it a wonderful place to visit as I have numerous Hawaiian friends living there. I am welcomed there so much that I am considered part of their Hawaiian family as a Hanai and not a Haole. That family extends to more Hawaiian family members living in close proximity to me in the Sacramento area.
I understand the different feelings people feel about the major changes that have taken place in Hawaii and how it is upsetting their financial and emotional lives. Let’s sit back and try to understand and absorb other people’s feelings.
If in retrospect the State of California had done what Hawaii has done in curbing visitors for the health sake of its citizens, I hope Hawaii would understand the circumstances as well. I believe they would as they are loving people.
Aloha friends,
My husband and I have been regular visitors to Maui for many years. When we visit we usually stay several weeks. We have made many friends from our visits to local shops and restaurants. We certainly appreciate the Hawaiian culture and are always eager to learn more about it. Our island friends have been more than gracious in helping us learn and understand their culture. We have never experienced local negativity. Several years ago, when I was learning to paddle board, three locals saw how I was struggling, they immediately approached me with tips and kindness. this is the Aloha Spirit of the islands. We enjoy watching the beautiful sunsets from Kamaole 1 and are usually joined by friends playing Ukulele and singing. This is the Aloha Spirit of Hawaii that I will always treasure.
Mahalo my Friends!
Hi Kim.
Thanks.
Aloha.
I am saddened by the way we were treated by a few locals on our last trip to Kauai in March. For six months we’d planned a family trip to celebrate my parents 80th birthdays and 60th wedding anniversary. 35 years prior, my parents moved to Kauai where my father worked at Wilcox Hospital. After moving back to the states we’ve always traveled back to Kauai at least once a year, this being our favorite island, loving the culture and people, it just always felt like home. My husband and I even married there.
Once we arrived on March 12th we were ready to have the trip of a lifetime, with our entire family, until the pan demic got worse a couple of weeks later. We were prepared to stay a month or more until tensions on the island with visitors became extremely uncomfortable. I have never before experienced such hatred and negativity before anywhere. We were taunted by some local young men at Shipwreck beach yelling “go home halie” while walking around us in a circle. Or walking past us with a surf board on the north shore, or protesters at the roundabout in Poipu where we were staying. We even got glared at for sitting on our lanai at our own condo when told to stay in place by the governor. We couldn’t leave the island fast enough and get home. I have to say I am disappointed by the actions of a few that have tarnished our love of a culture and island that we’ve loved and shared for so many years. I am sadly no longer dreaming of the day we would retire and move to our beloved Kauai.
Aloha old friend…may we someday find our happy place again with you.
I have been a visitor to Hawaii for over 20 years and even lived on Maui for 1 year. I have always loved and respected the Hawaiian culture and I have always been well received by any Hawaiian people or businesses I have dealt with. From time to time I have witnessed our visitors who have a total disrespect for the place they are visiting.
I feel the problem is more with the visitors than with the locals.
Aloha! As a person who has visited Hawai’i three times, I can honestly say it is like no other place I have been. It is magical. I love it there, and my partner and I cannot wait to visit again once it is OK to do so (hopefully by late July / early August). We understand the need for Hawai’i to get well on its own prior to opening back up to tourism. My partner previously lived on Oahu for a few years growing up, so he understands both sides of this topic. We have not experienced any issues of feeling unwelcome during our previous trips. We are respectful to everyone we encounter and to each place we visit. We are thankful to be able to visit what we call “Paradise”. We have a goal of moving to Oahu in the late summer, and once there, we’d love to be able to give back to the community through volunteer work. Thank you for all the information and articles, BOH.
Hi Zach.
Thank you.
Aloha.
We are planning our 7th trip to Kauai, the most peaceful haven on Earth, in my opinion. We have always been treated kindly and with courtesy. Of course, we have always done the same. We respect the land, ocean, and the culture.
A few times the cashier at Walmart has been a little unfriendly, not talking, just getting her job done.
Billy, at Dukes has always greeted us, glad we chose to visit again.
We would buy a condo at Kiahuna Plantation, if it weren’t for the HOA fees being so high. Gotta win the lottery, and then we’d be a resident ASAP.
Overall Kauai is respectful, kind, and courteous. (
(Honolulu is the opposite!)
I’m an annual retired military visitor from eastern Long Island (NY) and,obviously, return because I love Hawaii. I have visited almost all the islands and in addition to their natural beauty I find the “locals” a genuinely kind, helpful and gregarious . I truly appreciate the reality of an “Aloha” spirit the is so accepting of the visitor. Anecdotally, a left-behind back pack on a Honolulu bus was returned without loss of a single item. The local folks are, without a doubt in my mind, fine hosts which invites a mutual respect. Mahalo
Hi Peter.
Thanks.
Aloha.
When the road to Haena and Ke’e Beach was opened, we were very impressed with the great job that Kauai did fixing the road and putting in the lot. The parking lot is fantastic, and we do not mind at all having to get a permit – you just have to plan ahead. We were staying at Kauai Lagoons near the airport and drove up to see the new road and spend a little time at Ke’e and were so pleased to be able to do so. Limiting access to the beach is fine with us. Thank you Kauai, for taking such good care of your beautiful island. We always try not to disturb anything when we visit. We’ve been visiting regularly since the ’90s and hope we’ll be able to come back in the fall.
Our family has been going to Kauai and Maui for years. We have camped and stayed in Condos while visiting. Our experiences have been wonderful and we were surprised to read that some visitors didn’t feel the same way!
Aloha!
Even though we live in California, it took us many years to first visit Hawaii. Being Greek, we usually headed ‘home’ for vacation. But since we visited 4yrs ago, we find ourselves drawn to the Hawaiian Ohana spirit & continue to visit. We have a Sept trip planned for Kauai & are hoping to learn more about Hawaiian history & culture. We know how it feels tourists go to Greece & trash its islands so we can empathize with local frustrations. We appreciate the dialogue. Mahalo & Happy Lei Day!
Hi Suzanna.
Thank you.
Aloha.
I have nothing but good things to say about locals. WhenEver we had dealings with Anyone, we treat each other with mutual respect and friendliness!
I think this is overplayed. Visitors who are courteous and respectful are normally treated well in Hawaii. You have 4 classes of residents who to some extent or another are local. First, Military on secondment. These people are often from the Mainland and lve Service lives. They reside in Hawaii but are Service Personnel first and foremost. This group is unlikely to resent you for not being local. Malahinis, these are newcomers who are not from Hawaii but have moved here and often feel they should lay down the law on Hawaii’s future. often these folks are the most vociferous in complaining about visitors, This could be because they want to distance themselves from being visitors. Then you have Kama’aina who are of the land which means born in Hawaii, This can be a broad group with Japanese, Chinese, Filipino, Macronesian, Korean, Portuguese, Mainland and other subgroups. You can get hostility in some of these groups particularly amongst the young and those involved in Drugs and illegal activity. This animosity is nothing special to Hawaii it is present in Urban populations worldwide. This is more of a Problem on Oahu. Lastly you have Hawaiians who can trace some or all of their roots back many generations of Hawaiians (let us not forget Hawaiians came from Tahiti and other Polynesian islands and according to legend replaced the indigeous Menehune). Some Hawaiians feel that they have had a raw deal from the US take over and ousting of the Monarchy and the subsequent attempts to destroy the language and the culture, This is further magnified by the Hawaiians’ relationship with the land so Lockeian attempts to claim land ownership through improvement do not sit well and many of the earlier property development restrictions particularly trying to limit riperian rights have now been overturned by the supreme court. Now a visitor is unlikely to be informed enough to enter into a historic or political conversation but it is as well to know that for many this is a sore point. So you can see some do not care, some feel aggrieved at their financial situation having to do multiple jobs, some are sucked into drugs and alcohol and look for someone else to blame, some feel that the developers who wish to turn the Islands into another California are destroying what Hawaii is. As I said my experience since 1994 is that a courteous respectful person who engages with Hawaii and the local population is unlikely to encounter hostility but those who make insensitive comments like we are Americans, we own this place, have too much to drink and behave badly and generally merit little respect may well be dismissed as annoying. A good test is the flag. The King decided it should combine the flags of Great Britain and the United States as he wished to be on good terms with both countries. This upsets some visitors. If you feel the Union Jack should not be there, then you may well feel some locals do not like you. Unfortunately most British people do not make the connection to the US flag as only the stripes are used and any that feel Hawaii should have remained closer to the UK probably should have stayed home, as that rain left the station a long time ago and we are not talking HART. We cannot change history, much of which was very regrettable but if we respect each other and are courteous, you should not have a problem in Hawaii (though late night bars in Waikiki should be treated very very carefully).
My husband and I visited both Oahu and Kauai in December 2013. We loved both places! On Oahu, we didn’t rent a car but on Kauai we did. A local was tailgating us in Kauai through a windy pass. We were not driving slow for the local to pass us but he was going twice the speed he was supposed to go on curves. He finally went around us and we honked him. He got out of a car and said to my husband that honking is like saying the f word to people in Hawaii. My husband responded by saying that tailgating says the same thing to us. We feel that the hospitality of Hawaii has mostly been great but this person really put a bitter taste in our mouths. We will definitely be back to Kauai but locals need to have some courtesy to people that are not used to driving on the roads over there. Remember, we mainlanders help pay your salaries.
Both of my trips to Hawaii have been amazing and full of kindness from locals. We also showed respect and gratitude to the locals, the land, the culture, and the opportunity to experience the wonder and beauty of Hawaii.
I have visited Hawaii a little over a dozen times (for military missions & vacations). I have always received positive, friendly attitudes from the locals. I would not hesitate to return
anytime in the near future and feel welcomed. MAHALO!
Hi John.
Thanks.
Aloha.
My family has been coming to Hawaii every year since 2011 sometimes twice a year for 2 to 3 week stays. We have spent that time in Kauai or The Big Island. Being from Canada it is a wonderful reprieve from the long winter months and a time to recharge. We have always only experienced the upmost hospitality from the Hawaiian people and will continue to come and visit your wonderful islands in the years to come. We have a trip booked in August but due to this we may not be able to come. The Islands are your home and if you feel we need to wait to visit that is within your right to determine. We as visitors to your beautiful islands should respect that. Mahalo
Hi Leo.
Thanks.
Aloha.
I visit Hawaii at least once a year and have for several years. I’ve seen it both ways. Where residents are disrespectful to tourists and tourists are disrespectful to residents. I understand why residents dislike the large amount of tourism that happens on the islands. When I go, I often try and dress like the residents. No Tommy Bahama shirts or dresses. I want to blend in. Tis the advice of my sister-in-law who was a resident for years. I’m respectful to the business owners. They don’t owe me anything. I wish the state would return some of the tourism dollars directly to the residents. They deserve it. My advice to anyone visiting Hawaii. This is not your home. Be kind and respectful to place you visit. To the residents, we visitors, were not all jerks. Patience and communication between the two groups is key for both.
Among our many trips to the Hawaiian Islands, we were on Kauai during Hurricane Iniki and sheltered at the community college. We fled quickly to the sound of tsunami sirens, only grabbing suitcases and blankets. The next day, we attempted to retrieve the rest of our belongings. The road to our rented beachfront Poipu condo was destroyed and so were all the homes and buildings. All power lines had fallen. Destruction was everywhere. We parked and walked a mile or two to the condo. The beach was gone and dead fish littered chunks of blacktop that had once been road. The front of the whole complex was sheared off from the tsunami. On the way back, carrying bags of food and other items we retrieved, a van pulled over and the local woman driver invited us to let her drive us back to our car. We gratefully got in and I said to her, “We will be going home to our house and life. But Kauai is destroyed. Why are you helping us?” She answered, “Why honey, that is the aloha way.” I burst into tears. I love Hawaii and it’s customs and people.
Both of my trips to Hawaii have been amazing and full of kindness from locals. We also displayed respect and kindness to the locals, the land, and for the opportunity to experience the wonder that is Hawaii. Mahalo to all of the local Hawaiians.
As someone who owns a vacation rental on Kauai, I can say from personal experience that overwhelming majority of the islanders has been positive. As with any community there has been exceptions. However, the 2nd video highlighting a respect for their property, culture and island cannot be overstated. My personal experience has been one of mutual respect and kindness. I suggest going to the Kauai Museum and spend some time learning about the history and proud heritage the islanders have. This I think will help to understand there sentiment how visitors are asked and should behave. The travel ban obviously has hurt us and the people who work for us. Thanks for the opportunity to share.
Hi Gary.
Thanks.
Aloha.
I just had my trip to Maui canceled by my airline, refunded no problem. However, my condo accommodation is another story. I stand to lose my investment for the week there. Loss of accommodation dollars could be the reason that many people are scrambling to quickly rebook. I am not. I can see that some people may not feel they have any choice but to return quickly before they lose all of their money in such a situation.
My true heart is that I do not want to return to Hawaii until the time is right both for the people who live there and also for me as a traveler. I have been to the islands four times and had planned a return trip because I love the beauty and the culture and the slow pace. However, due to the extreme cost and difficulty of getting there and being there, I don’t want to return until everything is open and I can freely visit where I would like to and not be a burden to the resources. I do not want to be where I am not wanted or needed on a vacation. This is my feeling not only about visiting Hawaii again, but anywhere else in the world right now.
Hi Diane.
Thanks for your multiple comments.
Aloha.
Aloha,
We have been coming to one of the islands every year since 2001. Absolutley our favorite place to go in the world..
We always feel welcome and safe.
I do believe how you treat people is reflected in how they treat you back..
Tomorrow was supposed to be my first time on the islands. I was so looking forward to seeing everything I can swimming in the ocean, visiting local restaurants and event places. But now of course its off. WE who are visitors totally get that. I am very respectful of tradition and everything that Hawaii stands for.
We are hoping to reschedule in September since prices have gone thru the roof. We are still unsure as to how to either rebook or get credits for our flights.
Just remember many of us save a long time to be able to come and enjoy everything Hawaii has to offer so please dont look at us or treat us as though we are all bad when coming to visit hawaii. Stay safe everyone hope to see meet and party with all of you in September! Much love from Oregon!
Hi Paul.
Thanks.
Aloha.
I certainly had great experience while being there, Ben to the islands 6 times, all of the main island except the big island and hopefully there for out 50 wedding anniversary next year.
We were suppose to travel to Maui and Oahu a few weeks ago. We had been planning since August of last year, and had saved and budgeted quite a lot of $$$ for the trip. We have however received a full refund on all our expenses which is a blessing. I don’t know if we will end up rebooking the Hawaiian holiday anytime soon. I have read articles of tourists being targeted and their rental cars being vandalized with tire’s being slashed. Comments saying do not come here, cancel your trips to people who are just genuinely asking travel related questions. Travel to Hawaii is not cheap or easy for a lot of people on the East coast. We could just jump over to the Caribbean and be welcomed with open arms. Hopefully tourism rebounds and we are welcomed and maybe one day In the future we will return.
Aloha everyone.
I so miss my trips to the Islands…after all, it is Paradise!
I’m sure those who live there can find the throngs of tourists trying at times, but, I have to say, that on all my visits the people I met were always kind and welcoming.(Full of ‘Aloha’)
This crisis is making us all more than a bit fearful and naturally the Islanders want to keep the Islands vi rus-free, if possible. Hence the restrictions…a nuisance for locals and visitors alike. However, I have no doubts that we will be welcomed again. (Sooner rather than later, I hope!) Meanwhile, keep safe and well and protect Paradise for us all.
Mahalo,
Michael
Hi Michael.
Thanks for your recent comments.
Aloha.
We have visited Kauai every year for the past 5 years(except 2020) and stay for a month in a condo. I can say because of the beautiful spirit of the people we love this island & consider to be a part of it! I have no problem with the locals not wanting tourists during this! I agree totally. I also believe (hope) that when things start opening, the island and her people will welcome us back happily. Does that mean we need to flock to Kauai now?? NO!! It is too soon to know about a recurrence & the hospital can’t handle a large volume-nor should they be expected to. We plan to return but it will be awhile